SPEAK UP! : 5 Reasons You should Talk through your Feelings.

So many times, us ‘Married folk’ choose to swallow our words and disguise this as “picking our battles”. Although picking battles is smart, you SHOULD pick some every once in awhile. Never picking ANY is just a formula for unhappiness and division within your home.  We all know I ain’t about that life! Let me share with you WHY it's always a good idea to be vocal with your feelings.    1.  NO RESENTMENT. Borderline Disgusted. You know what's the…

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Is Marriage Distracting, or Are You just SELFISH?: 3 Questions for T.I. Harris

So…Have you  heard the news?  Clifford “T.I.”  Harris and Tameka “Tiny” Harris have decided to get a divorce. Tiny filed after allegedly finding out about her husband's extra marital affairs, and I'm assuming some other things that we haven't been made privy to. Mr. Harris recently did an interview with Angie Martinez, where he states that Marriage is a distraction to his progression. Marriage is a distraction, Huh? I have so many questions. I've decided to use my platform to…

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The Food isn’t THAT important: 5 Dating Convos that Trump where you Dine.

Attention: IG cultured Dating community….I have a few things to say about this here meme. Now, having standards is definitely something I don't think should take a back seat… but focusing on WHAT those standards are is what needs evaluating. Here are 5 things to focus on besides where you dine. Local Hobbies. What are his interest? Can we NOT focus on where the date is, and focus more on getting to know this person? I love a great meal…

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Once you get married, your desire to be with or around anyone but your spouse goes away. OK, so now that we've got that LIE out of the way, how about we start voicing some truths on this piece. Fighting temptation and fleshy thoughts don't go away once you say "I do". What happens is...Your respect, and desire to honor your commitment trumps the sweet smile and well dressed eye candy that keeps catching your attention. The misconception that us…

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#DateDifferent: 10 must haves for your Perfect Picnic Date!

Even though Old Man Winter decided to make another guest appearance, it still isn't too early to begin planning your first picnic date for the Spring!  Picnics are a fun and bank account friendly way to date your spouse.  Baetorious and I make it our business to have picnics in the park as much as the weather and our schedules will allow.  As I was conversing with a few wives from the NAEtion, I was surprised at how many have…

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